Missing requested subtitle and audio languages now warn and continue when --best-available is set instead of hard-exiting. Without the flag, missing languages still produce an error and exit, matching the prior strict behavior. Audio missing-lang detection is now symmetric with subtitles.
- add find_missing_langs helper in core/utilities for reuse between s_lang and a_lang paths (skips all/best/orig sentinels)
- refactor dl.py s_lang/a_lang checks to share the helper
- add tests/lang_selection covering match primitives, helper output, and tricky langcodes corners (zh-Hans/zh-Hant/zh-CN/zh-TW/zh-HK, cmn/yue, fil/tl/tgl)
- clean up unused-var ruff F841 in tests/remote/unit/
